<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><urlset xmlns="http://www.sitemaps.org/schemas/sitemap/0.9" xmlns:news="http://www.google.com/schemas/sitemap-news/0.9"><url><loc>https://justonething.rickhanson.com/p/why-does-the-same-bad-thing-feel</loc><news:news><news:publication><news:name>Ask Dr. Rick</news:name><news:language>en</news:language></news:publication><news:publication_date>2026-09-22T16:57:41+00:00</news:publication_date><news:title>Why Does the Same Bad Thing Feel So Different Depending on Who Did It?</news:title></news:news></url></urlset>